Once upon a time, there was a little girl, and she did not like it very much when her mother scolded her. The girl promised herself that she would never scold her children. She grew up, had children, and one fine day she suddenly realized that she was behaving exactly like her mother. Soon she heard that although our children are with us, they do not belong to us, we can give them love, but not thoughts, provide a home for their bodies, but not to their souls. From that day on, the relationship with the children has completely changed.